This Is Bigger Than Them
Scripture References
Overview
God’s purpose for your life is larger than the people, opinions, delays, or disappointments surrounding you. Using Caleb’s 45-year wait for his mountain, the sermon calls listeners to reject blame, bitterness, and insecurity in the “wilderness” seasons and to keep their minds fixed on God’s promise. When you refuse to let people or circumstances define you, you discover that “He kept me alive” and that every battle is “bigger than them.”
Main Points
1. Breakthrough and Blame Cannot Co-Exist
- While praying for a breakthrough, the speaker realized he was simultaneously blaming someone for the problem.
“You cannot claim breakthrough if you cling to blame.”
- Blame blocks blessings more than any other single factor.
- Like Caleb, decide that what others did or didn’t do cannot stop God’s promise.
2. Caleb’s Wilderness Perspective
- Caleb waited 38 years in the wilderness and 7 years of conquest yet stayed focused on his mountain.
- He could have said, “God made me wait 45 years,” but instead he said, “God kept me alive.”
“He has kept me alive for 45 years… I however followed the Lord my God wholeheartedly.”
- Two things you cannot control: the future and other people; you can control living by conviction.
- Story: The congregation was urged to picture Caleb replaying others’ bad decisions for decades. Had he done so, he would have emerged weak instead of strong.
3. Bitterness vs. Blessing
- Bitterness in the wilderness would have disqualified Caleb from inheriting the mountain.
- The battle inside—resentment, insecurity, feeling unappreciated—is often bigger than the external battle.
- Favor outweighs what was unfair: “God has favor that is bigger than unfair.”
- Listeners were warned that every day spent rehearsing who hurt them drains strength needed for tomorrow.
- Illustration: Walking through a desert where shoes never wore out—evidence that “He kept me.” Congregational call-and-response repeated “He kept me” to emphasize God’s preservation.
4. Insecurity Invents Enemies
- Moses missed the Promised Land because his first response to God was, “Who am I?”
- Likewise, many forfeit purity, purpose, or creativity by focusing on “them” instead of Him.
- Self-diminishing talk (“We seem like grasshoppers…”) robbed a generation, even while they carried giant grapes (Numbers 13).
- Question posed: Will you miss your grapes because you see yourself as a grasshopper?
5. The Promise Is Bigger Than Critics or Conditions
- Refrain hammered throughout the message:
“This is bigger than them.”
- Personal example: A veteran pastor said a diverse church could not thrive in divided Charlotte. God proved otherwise; the multi-ethnic congregation gathered that morning was living evidence.
- God’s destiny is not limited by diagnoses, education level, or past failures. Cameras, live-streaming, and global reach illustrate that God’s word “has no border.”
Key Truths
- God’s favor outweighs every unfair circumstance.
- Blame and breakthrough cannot live in the same heart.
- Bitterness in the wilderness robs strength needed for the next blessing.
- Insecurity magnifies enemies and minimizes God’s promise.
- No person can prevent what God has truly promised.
Response
- Release every person you blame; speak forgiveness by name.
- Refuse to rehearse past hurts today; thank God instead for how “He kept me.”
- Confront insecurity by declaring God’s promise over your life.
- Identify one “mountain” God has promised and keep it before your mind this week.
- Celebrate diversity and unity in the body of Christ as proof that the gospel is “bigger than them.”
Closing
The sermon ended with a rousing reminder that battles are inevitable, but every battle carries a blessing on the other side that will be “pressed down, shaken together, and running over.” Listeners were dared not to let any person or circumstance stand between them and God’s promise:
“I dare you to let a person get in the way of what God promised you. This is bigger than them.”