Loving Neighbors Impacted by Incarceration
Scripture References
Overview
The episode explores how followers of Jesus can love and serve people touched by incarceration—those inside prisons, those returning home, and their families. Kris Steele (TEEM) explains systemic obstacles and holistic re-entry support, while volunteer Nate Rudek shares practical steps for beginning prison ministry. Throughout, the hosts keep empathy central: remember the humanity of every person, move toward proximity, and treat each neighbor as you would treat Christ Himself.
Themes
Understanding the Impact of Incarceration
- A felony conviction functions like a lifelong “scarlet letter,” blocking access to most jobs, housing, and education.
- Oklahoma has one of the highest per-capita incarceration rates; for nearly 30 years it led the world in female incarceration.
- Primary drivers for women: domestic violence, unresolved trauma, and untreated mental illness.
- Incarceration often triggers a generational cycle; children of incarcerated parents are about seven times likelier to enter the system themselves.
Barriers Faced After Release
- Even after “paying their debt,” people carry the convicted-felon label forever.
- Lack of ID, housing, transportation, employment, and treatment services commonly derail successful re-entry.
- Ongoing social stigma isolates returning citizens and their families.
TEEM’s Holistic Support Approach
- Story: Kris Steele moved from Oklahoma legislator to TEEM director after seeing the financial and human cost of mass incarceration.
- TEEM serves roughly 2,700 people a year through eight tailored programs: pre-trial release, sober living, job placement, legal aid, trauma counseling, and 12-month post-release mentoring.
- Every participant leaves prison with a transition plan covering housing, employment, transportation, and accountability.
“We try very hard to keep humanity, dignity, and respect at the forefront of everything that we do.”
Why and How to Begin Prison Ministry
- Story: Nate grew up around prisons—his dad worked for the Department of Corrections—but resisted involvement until God freed him from his own addiction.
- Prison ministry is simply loving future neighbors; 95 % of inmates will one day live in our communities.
- First step in any state: contact the prison’s volunteer or chaplain office and complete its one-time orientation/badge class.
- Ministry forms vary: leading worship with Life.Church Online services, teaching life-skills academies (Prison Fellowship), mentoring, or simply visiting and praying.
Serving Families and Children
- Angel Tree connects churches to provide Christmas gifts and year-round support for children of inmates.
- “Caretakers”—grandparents, relatives, or single parents—often need respite, supplies, and community.
- Goal: integrate families into church life so they can worship together when mom or dad returns home.
Overcoming Fear and Taking First Steps
- Nerves are normal; acknowledge them and keep moving.
- State procedures exist to keep volunteers safe; follow the rules and remember God’s calling.
- Story: Nate mentors a 24-year-old serving a 30-year sentence who has since led 58 fellow inmates to Christ.
“If God’s calling you to it, He’s going to see you through it.”
Key Truths
- Every incarcerated person carries the image of God and remains our neighbor.
- Proximity—real relationships—breaks stereotypes and unlocks creative solutions.
- Trauma, abuse, and mental health challenges lie beneath many criminal convictions; healing requires holistic care.
- Successful re-entry demands both accountability and tangible community support.
- The church’s mission includes visiting prisoners and serving their families as though serving Christ Himself.
Response
- Pray regularly for inmates, returning citizens, and their children by name when possible.
- Contact a local prison chaplain or volunteer-services office and complete the orientation class.
- Write letters through the Pando App follow-up program or similar correspondence ministries.
- Support or volunteer with organizations like TEEM, Prison Fellowship, or Angel Tree.
- Invite caretakers and affected families into your small group, holiday gatherings, and church events.
- Educate yourself and others on the systemic factors that contribute to incarceration and advocate for restorative solutions.
Closing
The hosts challenge listeners to replace an “us vs. them” mindset with Christ-centered empathy. Whether stepping behind prison walls, mentoring a returning citizen, or helping a child whose parent is locked up, each act of proximity echoes Jesus’ words in Matthew 25.
“Whenever you’ve done that for these people, you’ve done it for Me.”
Our worth is not fixed to our worst mistake; restoration is a journey we are all on together.
Resources
- Pando App (Life.Church curated video library for prisons)
- TEEM (The Education and Employment Ministry, Oklahoma City)
- Prison Fellowship & Angel Tree programs
- Life.Church Online services for correctional facilities