Life.Church
2026-05-15
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• Quick instructions about “throwing area…between the blue line and the wood line,” then applause and settling in.
• Recap of the previous gathering: when we mess up, we try to perform, yet “what we really need to do is let God bring that value, that validation.” Tonight’s quest: practical ways to “put Jesus at the center of our lives.”
• Life backdrop: dad on marriage #4, mom on #3; lifelong hunger for validation.
• Married his high-school sweetheart at 18/19; within weeks thought, “I’d made a mistake.” Fifteen years of porn addiction and multiple affairs while “teaching Sunday school…posing and faking my way through my spiritual life.”
• 2010 low point: “I’m losing my wife…kids…family…job.” Alone in a small house, gun in mouth, tears falling, he prayed, “God, I can’t go on living.”
• Heard the Lord ask, “Am I enough?” First response: “You haven’t been—look where I’m at.” Then, stripped of everything, he answered, “Yes, God…you’re enough,” inviting Jesus into every corner of life.
• Since that surrender he’s watched God do “absolutely amazing” things in marriage, work, and heart.
• A few weeks ago told his wife, “If this isn’t burnout, then it’s close.” Feels dry, asking, “God, where are You?” He’s listening for practices that will revive him.
• Must “start my day there.” Goes to bed 30 minutes earlier, rises 30 minutes earlier for quiet listening and Scripture so he stays “on trajectory.”
• Clings to “The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy” (John 10:10) but Jesus brings “life …abundant.” Lost hope in his marriage, yet the promise now moves him from duty—“I don’t have to get up every morning in the Word”—to desire: “I want to.”
• Connects with God “around music of any kind…even an instrumental.” Shared how his daughter meets the Lord doing yoga with worship music.
• Grew up thinking devotion had to look like his mom praying 4-5 a.m. Tried a “10-10-10” challenge—10 minutes Word, 10 prayer, 10 journaling or worship—for 30 days. Loved it yet needs variety: “that for me was how I really connected.”
• Most days he parks outside the restaurant and grabs “never more than five or ten minutes”—a worship song, verse of the day—to “set the day on the right path.”
• Still experimenting. Reminds others that talking to God can be as simple as, “God, help me do something dope today.” Realized, “I hear from God more than I ever thought…I don’t have to be a bible-quoting super-human.”
• Believes each believer has “a love language with God.” His is worship, so he begins with songs, then Scripture, then prayer.
• Quoted The Message paraphrase of Matthew 7: “Don’t bargain with God…ask for what you need…If your child asks for bread, do you trick him with sawdust?…Don’t you think the God who conceived you in love would be even better?” Concludes that when we seek, we will find.
• God’s question “Am I enough?” echoed as a personal invitation to every man.
• Hope lost and hope restored framed by John 10:10.
• Wide variety of “love languages”—worship, word, prayer, music, silence, journaling—affirmed as equally valid.
• Shift from performance to presence: seek Him, not a feeling.
• Pray for Brother 2’s burnout and dryness.
• Continued healing for Brother 1’s marriage and family.
• Grace for each man to discover and guard his personal time and style with the Lord.
• Renewed hope in marriages under strain; protection from the enemy’s theft of hope.
“He’s right there just waiting for us.”
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